Get Involved In Memory Gifts in Memory Donating in Memory can be a very special way to honour the life of a relative or friend whilst raising vital funds for other local families affected by cancer. Many people do this by requesting donations at their loved one’s funeral or memorial service, often in lieu of flowers. There are various ways in which you can donate in memory: You can make an online donation, or you can send a cheque made payable to Wessex Cancer Trust. Telephone the fundraising team on 023 8067 2200 to make a donation using your credit or debit card. Talk to your Funeral Director who can arrange for funeral collections and donations in lieu of flowers. Special donation envelopes can be provided by the fundraising team. Please accept our sincere condolences if you have recently lost someone special to you.